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Smarter lessons from the smartest people I know, thanks to ChatGPT

“ Upgraded Rules: What the Wisest People I Know Do

1. They think in lifetimes, not timelines.

They don’t just stretch their horizon—they connect decisions to who they want to be, not just what they want to achieve.

They ask: “Will I still be proud of this in 10 years? Will it preserve my freedom and identity?”

Smart acts for the future. Wise acts for the self they want to become.

2. They’re willing to look like beginners, but not betray their essence.

They’ll ask “dumb” questions with confidence—but never put themselves in situations where looking uninformed leads to labels they can’t erase. For example: an 18-year old woman appearing nude for money in an international magazine or film.

Curiosity without vanity. Vulnerability without loss of control.

3. They balance self-belief with self-respect, not insecurity.

Ego + insecurity fuels ambition, but wisdom replaces insecurity with openness.

They believe they can excel, but they don’t let fear of inadequacy push them into decisions that violate their values.

Ambition grounded in identity, not anxiety.

4. They document to deepen clarity and influence—not just to win others.

Like Buffett or Munger, they write to refine thoughts first, persuade others second.

Their words aren’t strategic—they’re aligned. Their communication protects their principles.

Write not to be convincing. Write to be unmistakably yourself.

5. They love the basics—but only the right ones.

They don’t execute blindly. They choose fundamentals based on who they are and where they thrive, not what the world calls “best practices.”

Consistency matters most when applied to what truly matters.

6. They prioritize by consequence, not just efficiency.

They don’t just eliminate bottlenecks—they remove what threatens long-term freedom, dignity, and authenticity before chasing new opportunities.

“What will cost me the most in regret if I ignore it?” precedes “What is most urgent?”

7. They move quickly when the outcome is reversible. Slowly when it is not.

The original rule becomes incomplete without this amendment.

Speed + reversibility = smart.

Speed + permanence = dangerous.

“Go fast on choices you can redo. Go slow on anything that can define you.”

(And if the stakes are identity? Move only when aligned.)

The Complete Revised Principle

“The brightest minds evolve through fearless curiosity, deep reflection, careful self-preservation, and consistent action—moving quickly only when risk is reversible, and slowly when identity or long-term dignity is at stake.”

Making This Yours (Quick Reflection Framework)

Before executing on an idea, ask:

1. Is this reversible?

2. Does this expand or limit my personal freedom?

3. Will this preserve—not dilute—my identity?

4. Will I still respect this move when I’m 80?

5. Is this driven by alignment or urgency?

If yes, move quickly.

If not, move thoughtfully—or walk away.

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